The Fashion of the Pickup Artist Pt.2
(continued from part 1)
I’ve tried peacocking myself. I did this maybe a couple times when I heard that other guys were doing it, just to see if it worked.
I felt ridiculous when I went out and was totally incongruent with my personality.
Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know.
When I was in my workout clothes, or was wearing something basic – like jeans and a tanktop, I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred in there.
At the same time, I’d see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.
This got me thinking…maybe it’s not how much the clothes cost, or how flashy they are…
Maybe there’s something else aside from that.
Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage, or balance these two things.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make her like you, you are toast.
Women will see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses if you look like you got dressed with the intention of getting their attention.
You shouldn’t have to look like a pick up artist.
It’s better to dress reasonably, and not put too much thought into it.
However, you need to present yourself in the best way you can and not to look sloppy.
This gets back to self-expression.
You now have sense what kind of guy you are, what your “scene” is, what you think is cool.
Never change that.
Instead, cultivate it, with these simple tweaks.
This isn’t a rocket science. Wear colors that appeal to your skin tone and hair color. Go to an upscale men’s clothing store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.
Next thing, make sure your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and reasonably updated. A woman shouldn’t have to worry about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure that your garments are well-fitted, in other words, they EMPHASIZE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.
Wear pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself – nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a nice haircut. Shave, or don’t, but figure out what looks great and take it all the way.
Another thing…
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, “yeah, I can fuck.”
Make out for your intuition with this one. I don’t want to say too much because that’s a whole other topic.